• TranscendentalEmpire@lemmy.today
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    3 days ago

    Depends on who you think is in charge of a blowjob. I for one think it’s the one who has the ability to chomp down on your sensitive bits.

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      3 days ago

      Thats definitely not how the Romans saw it though. And it’s not the way it works in modern society usually either. Giving a blowjob is almost always a submissive act. Roman poets also used to basically have rap battles or diss poems with eachother, and one of the most famous ones starts with the line “I will face-fuck and sodomize you”. Fucking someone in the mouth was considered a dominant act, and there were a lot of power dynamics in their society that would have made it a really bad idea for anyone on the receiving end to ‘chomp down’ in most cases.

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          2 days ago

          I don’t personally, but I have definitely met some champions in my time, and I wouldn’t mind meeting up with some of them again. Personally I don’t care how you label it, a great blowjob is a great blowjob. I’m just saying how most people would view it. Especially the Romans.