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You can have one, maybe two divorces that aren’t your fault.
But if you have 3 or more divorces, you are the problem.
That was such a good book. And for anyone who hasn’t read, yeah she’s the reason she goes through 7 husbands.
There are two reasons: you are the problem or your taste in an ability to find a compatible person is extremely bad. They’re definitely part of the problem, but possibly not fully.
Maybe also not get married again with 3 marriages behind you
Maybe they’re the “I can’t have sex outside of marriage, but I’m really horny!” type?
Do you know any of these women? If they don’t have kids, my number is xxx-xxx-xxxx.
Wow I never knew lemmy automatically censors your number like that, let me try:
xxx-xxx-xxxx
Wow…
+1 205 218 5809
Yeah, jokes about marriage are perfectly fine for a person with 5 marriages. If they don’t like it, they can get married less.
Or at least choose more carefully the next time 🤷🏻
From a person who has been divorced once, and seen other friends get divorced. it’s not so much about choosing carefully, it’s about communication when the relationship gets tough or boring (and ideally before you get there). Finding the right person is the easy part, staying in love and staying happy - that’s the difficult part
You could argue that taking care to communicate openly and honestly is a choice, and that choosing someone able and willing to do that is a HUGE part of “finding the right person” 🤷🏻
But yeah, “communication is key” didn’t become a cliché because it ISN’T true heh
If I had to guess she’s hot and a psycho 😂
Oh no im on gen x lemmy again
This is what I wish my mom was
This reminds me of my brother. I’d known my wife for two months before we got married. We celebrate 10 years next month
Meanwhile, in the same time frame, he’s on wife six.
2 months seems quick to me, but I’m also feeling like I’m in a similar position. I’m dating someone currently that I’ve know for a while, and I’m thinking about proposing soon (we’re only a couple months into an actual relationship, and we’ve also talked about me doing this). I’m a little worried we’re both just getting carried away. So I guess my question to you is how did you know so soon, or was it a leap of faith in a way?
From personal experience on this, it ended terribly for me. I didnt really know the person I married and we were completely incompatible together. Mostly because I’m incompatible with being abused and she was incompatible with not abusing people.
I suggest cooling your jets and moving in together for a year. Maybe even two. Then propose if it goes well in that year or two. But not after 2 months…
