• Viceversa@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    sometimes they just can’t. And that is fine.

    No, it’s not fine.
    Even if it’s because of their mental problems - it still hurts and rightfully depletes your initiative to make shared plans.

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      3 months ago

      Yeah I hate this expectation that I have to be completely ok with “friends” avoiding me and cancelling plans. I’m not ok with it, it sucks, and if you keep doing it I’ll find new friends.