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Without confirming it myself, that immediately signals to me that they’re gonna start doing outrage moments and then flipping the outrage into micro wins.

Edit: 1000x more than they already fucking do. I hope all these bastards taste nothing but napalm when they rot in hell, truthfully.

The entire way we treat our armed servicemen is quite literally all a way to subjugate them into being docile little bitches for their managers, which is why we were easily couped by the most idiotic Russian leader of all time

Soon enough NO deed will go unpubished, yayyyy orwellian society. That will prove the libs wrong if everyone’s dead or in jail!!!

He will be punished, likely solitary confinement for a year or two

1. I’ve experienced both types of childhoods, I can definitively say I would’ve preferred having actual loving parents who knew how to use trauma to teach me about how to handle trauma in all facets of our lives. It’s one of many social epidemics currently rotting our society away.

2. If you read my original starement fully, you would’ve seen that I wrote in loving parents up there… and specified that the statement DOESNT apply to everyone because I know better than most about being abused by parents from self experience lmao.

Human existence is nothing but endless trauma, especially historically. It’s actually spectacular that we’re even having this conversation rather than just lugging around rocks as we die from the ice age that would otherwise be going on rn.

Parents are evolutionarily meant to prepare you for the world, and we primarily did that in ineffective, animalistic ways like beating them. Should they do that? I’d say no, although I think it’s ultimately dependent on the child’s act and the parent’s emotional intelligence more than anything regarding the loosely bound societal construct that is “morality”. Like, if most people’s child intentionally cut their other child with a knife, I wouldn’t really be that taken aback to hear they slapped them for it - even if it wasn’t the correct thing to do.

The point of what I was getting across was that in normal, semi-HEALTHY parental relationships: trauma is the driver of learning for the broad human population. This trauma does not typically cause CPTSD. Hell, it might not even cause PTSD.

You have made the mistake of thinking what’s popular is normal

Being a dickhead to someone because you’re traumatized is no therapy behavior

Hitting your kids is not even semi-normal and you’re seemingly too traumatized to know that. You also seem to think I didn’t both go through extreme neglect AND extreme abuse lol.

I wish you luck in your treatment!

Read the second part of the comment bro

Being traumatized by your loving parents to learn life lessons > being traumatized by life to learn lessons

I know it’s not true for every situation, but in 99% of healthy-ish parental relationships it will ring true. I wish I could’ve learned so many things the “traditional” way through a parenting mistake 😤😤😤😤

Ugh we need more stories like this man, the reality is that things do suck but that doesn’t mean people can’t change. And shit, they might be able to change but not enough, in which case it’s maybe not meant to be, but good on you for still trying!

As someone blessed with the most patient partner ever regarding my own stupid male society learned bullshit: I would’ve ended my life a long time ago if it weren’t for her. Our society makes men feel fucking insane for being semi-normal, emotional, affectionate, and so on.

It’s truly asinine knowing how much pain my friends live with that they will never understand because they are desperately clinging onto their perceived masculinity.

My bro Richard is gunning for a raise this next year that increases above inflation 🤣🤣🤣 Good luck, Dick!

The way I would only say this in a sarcastic and mocking way to make fun of management and this guy truly believes in it LMAO.

ATP… I am confident you need to have some undiscovered mental illness, one that goes far beyond narcissistic behavior, in order to become a CEO.

Truly struggle to believe people are this incompetent, and somehow manage to make their ways to $100k+ salaries lmfao. Shit is all a joke.

I’d argue Andy and their “PR team”, if it exists beyond the advice of staff engineers like in the post above, seem to know exactly what they did wrong.

To push your engineers to hide their fuckin’ identities on personal accounts to be pro-company? Like lmao. Just that alone shows they are willing to go to any length to make their garbage product smell like anything but the steaming pile of shit that it is.