

Mainly my normal phone app. But for a long time it’s not sync’d to some google cloud (which would be the default) but a Radicale instance.
I used Nextcloud before but honestly it’s a mess to maintain. So much that I would not suggest it without planning to extensively use a lot of the different available addon functions.
Just for file sharing and caldav/carddav I will pick some simple solutions (like Radicale and Syncthing) over Nextcloud any day.



Security through obscurity never works, so changing you SSH port does barely anything
… for security that is.
What it does is keep a lot of automated bots from spamming your server. No, they don’t have any chances to get access when key authentification is used (and they won’t try either… most go for the incredible low hanging fruits like admin/admin user/password sets), but they can become a strain on your own ressources.
What actually helps (and is usually configurable with any firewall) is rate limiting access. Just blocking someone’s access for 10 seconds after a failed attempt will make absolutely no difference for you but a big one for those spammers. Now add some incremental increase after multiple fails and you are perfectly set.
PS: 53 is the standard port for DNS when your server operates as such.
PPS: Don’t use it. People should really let that stuff die and exclusively run encrypted DNS (via TLS, HTTPS or Quic…)